Faith
May 2, 2009 Leave a comment
We are not “saved” by belief in God plus all the great things we do for Him.
We are “saved” by a belief in God that motivates us to do great things for Him.
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May 2, 2009 Leave a comment
We are not “saved” by belief in God plus all the great things we do for Him.
We are “saved” by a belief in God that motivates us to do great things for Him.
April 17, 2009 4 Comments
Poem “Nobody’s Friend”
My name is Gossip.
I have no respect for justice.
I maim without killing.
I break hearts and ruin lives.
I am cunning and malicious and gather strength with age.
The more I am quoted the more I am believed.
My victims are helpless. They cannot protect themselves against me because I have no name and no face.
To track me down is impossible. The harder you try, the more elusive I become.
I am nobody’s friend.
Once I tarnish a reputation, it is never the same.
I topple governments and wreck marriages.
I ruin careers and cause sleepless nights, heartaches and indigestion. I make innocent people cry in their pillows.
Even my name hisses. I am called Gossip.
I make headlines and headaches.
April 16, 2009 2 Comments
I’ve been thinking about this all morning:
14 May the words of my mouth and the meditation of my heart
be pleasing in your sight,
O LORD, my Rock and my Redeemer.
January 16, 2009 Leave a comment
My pastor, Rick Bezet, encouraged the staff to read the Beatitudes in The Message Bible. You gotta read it. Good stuff.
Matthew 5:1-12 1-2 When Jesus saw his ministry drawing huge crowds, he climbed a hillside. Those who were apprenticed to him, the committed, climbed with him. Arriving at a quiet place, he sat down and taught his climbing companions. This is what he said: 3“You’re blessed when you’re at the end of your rope. With less of you there is more of God and his rule.
4“You’re blessed when you feel you’ve lost what is most dear to you. Only then can you be embraced by the One most dear to you.
5“You’re blessed when you’re content with just who you are—no more, no less. That’s the moment you find yourselves proud owners of everything that can’t be bought.
6“You’re blessed when you’ve worked up a good appetite for God. He’s food and drink in the best meal you’ll ever eat.
7“You’re blessed when you care. At the moment of being ‘care-full,’ you find yourselves cared for.
8“You’re blessed when you get your inside world—your mind and heart—put right. Then you can see God in the outside world.
9“You’re blessed when you can show people how to cooperate instead of compete or fight. That’s when you discover who you really are, and your place in God’s family.
10“You’re blessed when your commitment to God provokes persecution. The persecution drives you even deeper into God’s kingdom.
11-12“Not only that—count yourselves blessed every time people put you down or throw you out or speak lies about you to discredit me. What it means is that the truth is too close for comfort and they are uncomfortable. You can be glad when that happens—give a cheer, even!—for though they don’t like it, I do! And all heaven applauds. And know that you are in good company. My prophets and witnesses have always gotten into this kind of trouble.
November 22, 2008 1 Comment
Failing in your relationship with god can actually make your relationship with God better!
Striking out in baseball can make you a better hitter.
Making a “C” on a paper can get you closer to making an “A.”
Messing up as a leader can make you a better leader.
If you learn from failure you will become better.
For some, failure is their worst enemy but if you learn from failure then it becomes your best friend. You must learn from your failures because if you don’t you will repeat them. We must learn to see failure as an opportunity.
I would not be who I am today without my failures. I have learned from them and they have made me a better person and a better leader.
I have a four-month-old boy named McAllister. In a few months, I will teach him how to walk. He will undoubtedly fall down trying to walk. Will I call him a failure? Or will I pick him back up and tell him he did a great job trying. Falling down is part of life and it is unavoidable.
Proverbs 24:16 says, “For a righteous man falls seven times, and rises again, but the wicked stumble in time of calamity.”
There is something about failure that reminds us that it isn’t about us and during seasons of failure all of our junk surfaces to the top. We learn about ourselves. Our failures are where we meet God face to face in brokenness.
Why did this happen?
What can I learn from this?
What did I do wrong?
What could I have done differently?
What did I do right that I don’t need to change?
The most spiritual thing some of us can do today is to GET BACK UP!
November 9, 2008 Leave a comment
I used to complain about my schedule and how busy I was and then one day I stopped and realized something…I make my own schedule!
The fourth thing I believe that we can do is: Say “NO!”
You are not a slave! Some of you are saying yes to everyone and you think you are being so kind but your “acts of kindness” are based out of fear and guilt, not kindness.
If you have a hard time saying no, then get ready for some major health issues.
I bet most of you have a “to do” list. Some of us need to make a “stop doing” list.
People pleasers get burned out a lot. They say yes to a lot of people. And as they say yes to each person, an subconscious anger builds but they don’t really recognize it. They feel angry at people pressuring them but in all reality it’s their fault for allowing that pressure to disturb them.
You ever complained about something that you agreed to do?
People pleasers are silently angry but they keep saying yes.
Practical Tip: When someone asks you to do something, say you have to think about it. That way you don’t have to think on the spot.
In the end, it is your responsibility to say no. We must not blame others if we are fearful and timid.
Maybe it’s not that our boss or our friends or our family are inconsiderate jerks. Maybe we are just too fearful to say no.
Some of us need to STOP CARING SO MUCH!
November 7, 2008 Leave a comment
Ever felt like you have to change who you are in order to be accepted?
Have you ever been deeply affected by criticism? Have you ever felt rejected?
Do you go out of your way to avoid conflict?
Is it hard for you to express your feelings and communicate?
The third way that I believe we can overcome being a people pleaser is: SPEAK UP
Remind people that you are an individual. You have opinions. You have convictions. You have values. You have beliefs.
Tell people what you think and what you believe and lay your sweet head on your pillow every night knowing that you are who God says you are!
Be honest. Express your feelings. Confront people when you are angry or bitter. Communicate clearly, respectfully and politely, but confidently.
The suppression of anger can sometimes be more powerful than the rage of anger. Avoiding confrontation and communication about how you feel makes your relationships fake and surface level. You gotta speak up and communicate!
I used to be so afraid of confronting people or disagreeing with others. I’m come to realize that disagreements are inevitable and as long as I remain humble, teachable, and willing to talk then I’m good. I can still love and accept people that strongly disagree with me. Wow! So profound isn’t it? Things are never as bad as they seem. Our minds go crazy wild thinking that others are going to hate us. Just talk it out like adults. Don’t let the lack of approval of others cause you to look and act like someone else.
And when you get it all out on the table and you just don’t agree with each other or the other person doesn’t understand or doesn’t respect you….then that’s okay. Don’t let it ruin your life and have power over you. Keep your joy!
My advice is to think of one person that you need to have a conversation with and do within a week.
November 6, 2008 Leave a comment
“Becoming obsessed with what people think about me is the quickest way to forget what God thinks about me.” Craig Groeschel of Lifechurch.tv
People pleasers are fear-based individuals. They fear rejection, judgment, what people think and say, and anger or disapproval. People have become too big and god has become too small.
The second way that I believe we can overcome people pleasing is: ACCEPT REALITY
There will be some people in your life that will not like you. THIS IS OKAY!
You cannot follow Christ and make everyone happy.
You will have enemies.
Sometimes the need to be popular will steal your destiny.
God may not want you to be just like your family.
You will disappoint people. You will be criticized and judged.
You don’t have to be best friends with everyone.
If we would really just accept this I believe it would help us tremendously. I used to try to get everyone to like me and I got very tired. It can’t happen.
We cannot please everybody but we CAN please God.
November 5, 2008 Leave a comment
Too many people live for the approval of other people instead of God. God’s opinion is all that matters.
Galatians 1:10 “10 Obviously, I’m not trying to win the approval of people, but of God. If pleasing people were my goal, I would not be Christ’s servant.”
One way to overcome people pleasing is: BE YOURSELF
Got a question for you. Who are you?
“But momma wants me to be a doctor…”
So what. She’ll get over it. What does God want you to be?
“But my friends will judge me…”
So what. They probably judge you anyway. What about God?
Who are you?
Be yourself. No one can make decisions for you. Only you know what you should do.
I’m surprised by how many people are so consumed with what others think of them that they aren’t even themselves. If you are truly following Christ, you will not live a normal life. In fact, it is impossible to serve God and make everyone happy.
You don’t have to be like everyone else. Be YOU! I’ve had to sit across from people that I am extremely close to and say this is how it’s going to be in my life. Period. I don’t think I’m better than you. You don’t have to agree with me but this is what I’m all about.
Don’t surrender who God has called you to be at the expense of other’s opinions or judgments
God will call you to do crazy things. Are you willing to look like a fool for God? Are you willing to look ridiculous for God? Your true friends will respect your life decisions.
Romans 8:31 “If God is for us, who can be against us?”
Are you ashamed of what God is trying to do in you?
I remember when I used to be so concerned about what people thought of me. The way I walked into the gym, the clothes I wore and the way I wore them, my eye contact with others, what I ordered to drink. It was crazy. I watched everything I did to make sure that people didn’t reject me. Why did I care so much?
I thank God that I’m over that!
Be yourself…when God leads you or speaks to you. Stand on it. And don’t move from it. If you end up mistaken, so be it. You never said you were perfect. But until that happens stand on what God has spoken and be yourself.
October 28, 2008 Leave a comment
My pastor Rick Bezet said in staff meeting today, “The truth without love is not truth.”
If you love people you can tell them the truth. If you don’t love people, then they won’t care about your truths that are so dear to you.
There are sometimes groups of Christian extremists:
1. Christians that just tell the truth
2. Christians that just love people
But you can’t have one without the other.
Truth without love is not really the truth. You cannot fully preach at someone that you don’t fully love.
Love without truth is not really love. You cannot fully love someone your are not honest with.
Jesus preached the truth but he did it with a broken compassionate heart. The kindness of God leads people to repentance.
John Maxwell says, “People don’t care how much you know until they know how much you care.”
Let me ask you two pointed questions:
What person in your life needs to be reminded that you genuinely love them?
What person in your life do you need to confront or challenge in a life-giving way?